What do you find yourself doing when something isn’t working in your life?
It’s interesting how many people function from the same basic point of view when handling a problem or sticky situation. It’s kind of like the “go-to” solution to any problem we’re faced with. And yet, it rarely seems to work. And it definitely doesn’t usually get us to our target.
When something isn’t working in our lives, we tend to try and fix it. We look at what we can do to make it better or make it work better. We take this thing that isn’t working for us or doesn’t serve us and manipulate it to try to fit our aim in life.
We twist and contort ourselves to try and fix “it” until it approximates what we think it should be. “It” can be anything from finances to relationships to our job or parenting. “It” can show up in your life quite literally as anything that isn’t currently working for you.
And as I mentioned, it rarely gets us what we truly desire once it’s “fixed.” What can even occur is that once we “fix” this “it,” we find that it’s still not quite right for what we require. So, we set about fixing it again….and again….and again…..
A Different Possibility
What if instead of trying to fix “it” all the time, you simply asked something like…
What can I choose here that would give me a completely different result and possibility?
I know…crazy, right?
What if instead of trying to fix what isn’t working, you choose something else altogether?
What choice could I make here that would bring me on target for my life and living?
Will the answer show up immediately? Maybe. Maybe not.
And if you continue to ask these questions, you will over time begin to shift so that your choices will more closely approximate the life and living you truly desire to have. Your daily actions will begin to make the shift. Your weekly actions will bring you even closer.
Until one day…you wake up and are aware that your life is different and you are actually on target for living life. And you may even one day have a major thought like, “I could do _____ to change my money flows.” Then institute that idea and dynamically alter the trajectory of your life.
How cool is that?!
Go For It!
Go ahead! Think about that thing you’ve been struggling with…that’s had you stumped and stuck…and ask those questions. See what new and different ideas show up. See what shifts occur.
Just see what happens!
All of Life Comes to Me with Ease, Joy and Glory!